Forgive Everyone Everything (again)

I recently found this on http://mysuccessvision.blogspot.command and had to share it. I think it’s wonderful and it’s inspired me to do better in my own life. Read on!

“I believe that forgiving someone who has done harm to you is a sign of strength and not a weakness. No matter the magnitude of harm they have done to you, it is indeed good to cultivate the habit of forgiving. It takes a lot of patience, endurance, fortitude and a good heart to actually forgive someone.

Also we must not feel bad about asking an apology or sorry to someone. It actually improves our character, and relieves us from our guilt. We must never ever tease or comment anyone from our heart though at times we may have to do so based on the circumstance. I believe the act of taking revenge on somebody as a foolish act. There should never be a tit for tat. I hereby would like to apologize to everyone who feels I have done something harm.


It’s hard to follow these kinds of things in reality, but to be a good person and to improve the quality of our soul, we must mold us to be free from the vampires such as EGO, FEAR, ANGER, not forgiving. Eradicating these evils implies we are escalating on our path towards the evolution and to reach that oneness within us. Below are certain points which I found interesting on the net:


  1. Take a 10-30 minute walk every day. And while you walk, smile. It is the ultimate anti-depressant.
  2. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day. Buy a lock if you have to.
  3. Buy a TIVO, tape your late night shows, and get more sleep.
  4. When you wake up in the morning complete the following statement: My purpose is to___________ today.
  5. Live with the 3 E’s: Energy, Enthusiasm, Empathy.
  6. Watch more movies, play more games, and read more books than you did last year.
  7. Make time to practice meditation, yoga, tai chi, qigong, and prayer. They provide us with daily fuel for our busy lives.
  8. Spend more time with people over the age of 70 and under the age of 6.
  9. Dream more while you are awake.
  10. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less foods that are manufactured in plants.
  11. Drink green tea and plenty of water and eat blueberries, wild Alaskan salmon, broccoli, almonds, and walnuts.
  12. Try to make at least 3 people smile each day.
  13. Clear your clutter from your house, your car, your desk, and let new and flowing energy into your life.
  14. Don’t waste your precious energy on gossip, energy vampires, issues of the past, negative thoughts, or things you cannot control. Instead, invest your energy in the positive present moment.
  15. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class, but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
  16. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince, and dinner like a college kid with a maxed out charge card.
  17. Smile and laugh more. It will keep the energy vampires away.
  18. Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.
  19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
  20. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
  21. You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
  22. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.
  23. Don’t compare your life to others’. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
  24. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, and wear the fancy lingerie. Don’t save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
  25. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
  26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: “In five years, will this matter?”
  27. Forgive everyone everything.
  28. What other people think of you is none of your business.
  29. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.
  30. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
  31. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Y our friends will. Stay in touch.
  32. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful, or joyful.
  33. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
  34. The best is yet to come.
  35. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up, and show up.
  36. Do the right thing.
  37. Call your mother and father often.
  38. Each night before you go to bed complete the following statements: I am thankful for __________. Today I accomplished____________.
  39. Remember that you are too blessed to be stressed.
  40. Enjoy the ride. Remember that this is not Disney World and you certainly don’t want a fast pass.”

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